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This month…
Our cover this month reflects the best in small business
that Greater Edmonton has to offer. The story’s about
Jen and Lynn Carolei, the feisty
mother-daughter team who own Sublime Swim and Sunwear at St. Albert. These two
gals are swimming in personality and business chutzpa. Their store, only four
years old, is bursting at the seams and Sublime needs more space; customers are
waiting up to an hour for change rooms. The Big Challenge is they need to secure
about $240,000 for a larger facility and the confidence to make the leap. Can
these two weather the storm that besets a family-run business? Lynn, only
recently divorced, already is exhausted from the added pressures and Jen can’t
take on any more responsibilities….she wants a life, too! These are the very
reasons that the Caroleis were invited to be “transformed’ in a print and
television alliance with Citytv for Breakfast Television…The Transformers—known
to readers of Edmontonians as Tom Bradshaw, Les Brost,
Steffany Hanlen, and Colin Williamsen agreed to coach our
challengers to the top of their personal podium…as Champions of Business.
And what about Citytv? You’ve known them as A Channel before it sold to CHUM
before it sold to CTV. While station manager Craig Roskin handed out
pink slips last summer and tightened operations to work alongside the signature
programs of ACCESS, Canadian Learning Television,
BookTelevision, and CourtTV Canada, content manager Paul Mennier
got the ball rolling on
developing a new-style magazine format. “The derivative
is from the print world magazine, which is unlike a newspaper. It can take
longer form to cover a specific story…You can direct a little more time…it’s a
little more colourful, a little more picture-driven, a little more.” Some of
the “little more” comes in the small package of Marina Michaelides, a
multi-talented, award-winning producer, director, and author. Her most recent
success is known here in the form of The Family Restaurant which
chronicles the trials and tribulations of the Yianni Pisalios clan and
its three Greek eateries on FoodTV. Michaelides now throws her attention
to the Caroleis…and irresistible television. That’s not all…Muggsy
Forbes talks to Margaret Evans about her working life as a war
correspondent; Edmontonians know her parents as the late Journal columnist
Art Evans and mother Una MacLean Evans, a former Edmonton city
counselor…Erin Rayner meets up with the sales diva Kim Duke
who recounts her Top Three Sassy Sales Tips… Don Hill tells corporate
leaders why the art of telling stories can help them find the right words when
the news is bad…Ron Hiebert asks readers if they’re ready to change their
buying habits when it comes to the energy sector. And much, much more!
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T his Month:
Stories that breathe....
Dancing
with a grizzly....
The
Transformers....
Renegade Woman...
Stories that breathe - Transforming
traditional television news
By Rick Lauber
When it comes to local television
stations, Edmonton’s Citytv has long been the new kid on the block—always
challenged by CFRN, CBC and Global. Challenge has led to change for the upstart
station—a concept that comes in a variety of forms.
Change is nothing new to the
fledgling station: First it was A Channel, owned by Craig Media from
September 1997 to December 2004… at which time it became Citytv, owned by
CHUM which sold to Bell Globemedia 18 months later. Well, sort of…
As reported on-line at
wikipedia.com, “In July 2006, CHUM announced it was to be taken over by Bell
Globemedia (later renamed CTVglobemedia), owner of the CTV network, pending
regulatory approval. The takeover was completed on October 30. Regulatory
decisions regarding the takeover are not expected until mid-2007 at the
earliest; in the interim CHUM has been placed in a blind trust under lawyer John
McKellar.” Locally, there would not be a merger; Citytv and CTV stations would
remain distinctively different. Other CHUM operations in Edmonton—ACCESS,
Canadian Learning Television, BookTelevision and CourtTV Canada—remain
side-by-each with Citytv in the historic Hudson’s Bay building downtown, now
being redeveloped as Enterprise Square by the U of A.
On the heels of the take-over,
extensive staffing cuts occurred. Station General Manager Craig Roskin refers to
those days as “Black July, when we had the misfortune of having to say goodbye
to 48 staff members, which was a difficult thing to do.” All were from the news
department… all victims of poor ratings. This decision was simply a matter of
numbers—professional and not personal.
“We were not garnering the
audience that we would have liked to receive,” explains Paul Mennier, station
content manager, adding that the cuts included news announcers, editors and
camera operators. Edmonton was not the only market affected: Every CHUM-owned
television station located in Canada felt this same pinch. In total,
approximately 300 jobs were suddenly lost.
Through the darkness of “Black
July” came light. The down-sizing provided station management a chance to
revaluate their news delivery package and compare it to other local broadcasts.
Very little difference was found. “There wasn’t a great deal of diversity in the
supper package,” notes Mennier. “If you looked at 6 p.m., the stations signed on
at the same time and had the identical stories… Sometimes it was eerie that they
ran the same clips, the same pictures at the same time and, so really, if you
were looking for diversity, your choices were if you wanted to get the news from
a blonde or a brunette.”
Boldly, Citytv management opted to
buck tradition… to consciously speak, instead, to the community at another
level. They would certainly not ignore the major stories of the day, but would
“let the other guys do what they were doing well, and serve the community with
those kinds of stories: the ambulance-chasing, the crime, the minor scandal,”
states Mennier.
“We’ll break off and do some of
the other stories that we’ve always talked about doing … We’ll set the agenda
and the agenda largely will be set by what’s happening in Edmonton, and the
people that we meet and the interesting things that are happening here.” Such
people, “…don’t get the news coverage they deserve.”
Another key difference in the news
package is the news magazine format, strongly evident both in Breakfast
TV—affectionately promoted as BT—and at 6:30 p.m. with Your City. This differs
greatly from a traditional newscast on many levels, explains Mennier, “The
derivative is from the print world magazine, which is unlike a newspaper: It can
take longer form to cover a specific story… You can direct a little more time…
it’s a little more colourful, a little more picture-driven, a little more.
Speaking in TV terms now, we let these stories breathe a little bit more…”
Just how does a news story breathe
more? It is given the time and opportunity to more fully develop instead of just
presenting the quick facts. Unbuckle your belt after gorging down a box of
chocolates and you’ve got the idea.
Within the station’s new-found
magazine and community focus, the opportunity arose for a collaborative effort:
Take the idea of The Transformers— Edmontonians’ innovative feature launched in
January—and enhance it. Televise the life and business coaches Tom Bradshaw, Les
Brost, Steffany Hanlen and Colin Williamsen as they tutor and counsel
entrepreneurs on how to identify and overcome obstacles.
Mother and daughter business team,
Lynn and Jen Carolei, were recruited to be the first “live transformees.”
They own and operate Sublime Swim and Sunwear (located in St. Albert) and
have outgrown their current commercial retail space. Problems are painfully
evident in the cramped, small store. Displaying merchandize to its best
advantage and giving patrons prompt change-room access have both been a big
challenge. Lynn and Jen have plenty of desire and recently secured financing for
the move to larger space in April.
And so, the mini-reality series
was born. The Transformers was introduced to the station’s viewing audience on
Breakfast Television in mid-February, with subsequent progress reports
airing twice each Thursday morning through to late April.
Viewers should not expect just
another over-the-top reality show. Marina Michaelides, show
director-producer, explains, “You can have those simple makeover shows where
it’s easy to transform the way someone looks in a day, but to change habits of a
lifetime takes a lot longer. The Transformers is more of a docu-soap where we
are going through their own real life soap opera. The Transformers are people
doing exactly that… transforming people on the edge of a massive change in their
lives… taking them through the dark nights of their souls in order to come back
up.”
The Transformers, all in all, is
compelling television. Ordinary people—virtually, the folks next door—are
featured as they learn some important life and business lessons. In the process,
viewers are introduced to situations they can easily relate to and, perhaps,
recognize and correct their own shortcomings themselves. As a bonus, they can
get more detailed information from the coaches in their monthly Edmontonians’
columns. Everybody wins.
Ironic, isn’t it? Citytv has
chosen to air The Transformers even as the station is undergoing a
transformation of its own.
The new kid on the block is growing up. √
See what the Transformers have to say .....

Dancing
with a grizzly …and other dangerous steps to success
By
Les Brost
Managing a start-up business in an
overheated economy is like dancing with a grizzly bear. You’re afraid to keep
dancing but you’re even more fearful of what Ol’ Grizz will do if you reject
him. It’s scary and thrilling and draining all at the same time.
The risk/reward quotient ramps up
if it’s a family business, and it increases by 100 percent if the business is
owned and managed by a parent/offspring team. Yet this approach to business can
pay off in huge personal and financial rewards if the owners put in the up-front
work to achieve the clarity required to manage their business and personal
relationships.
Lynn Carolei and her daughter Jen,
owners of Sublime Swim and Sunwear in St. Albert, are dancing with the grizzly.
They are thrilled and tired, buoyantly optimistic and scared spitless—sometimes
all in the same day. That’s normal for folks in their position.
Lynn, an experienced
businesswoman, and her 25-year-old daughter have had the store about four years.
Each has her own responsibilities relative to the store and they’ve hired staff
to run day-to-day customer sales.
“Put on your grown-up clothes,”
Jen tells her mother who sometimes panics over tough business decisions. They
get along well, given the normal ribbing and teasing within families. Recently
divorced, Lynn has two other children, an adult son and a teenage daughter
living at home.
As a former banker, Lynn manages
the books and the financing; she attends networking events at such places as
E-women Network, Mastermind Clubs and Powerhouse Boards. Jen generally spends
her days dealing with suppliers, shipping and receiving. Both enjoy swimsuit
shopping excursions to Florida.
Having successfully established
Sublime in a niche market, the ladies faced a new challenge: space. Customers
have been known to wait an hour for a change room in their 800-square foot
store. That’s not enough room to attractively display their merchandise—roughly
10,000 items, according to Lynn.
Mother and daughter grappled with
the idea of either bringing in equity partners or raising enough organic cash
flow to ease the transition and make the move happen. Jen recently attended a
boot camp on how to put together venture ideas. Having negotiated the necessary
financing, Sublime is relocating in April to a space that is almost three times
bigger.
Enter Edmontonians
Transformers—not to secure financing but to assist Lynn and Jen in developing
winning attitudes and presentation skills. √
See what the Transformers have to say .....

Her
staccato-style speech is punctured by a deep intake of thoughtful breath. You
must think fast in the company of this television producer from the U.K. who
barely stands over five feet in her boots. She is a pistol. Marina Michaelides
is a multi-talented, award-winning producer, director and author. She has 20
years experience creating and running television productions, including numerous
shows for the BBC in the UK, and various specialty channels in Canada.
Among her most familiar
productions to locals are The Family Restaurant which chronicles the trials and
tribulations of the Yianni Pisalios clan and its three Greek eateries in
Edmonton on FoodTV; and Very Bad Men, true crime stories investigating serial
con men, for Global.
Station manager Craig Roskin
agrees snagging Michaelides for Citytv was a real coup. Utilizing her talent to
the best advantage falls to Paul Mennier, the station’s content manager.
“In
addition to producing Edmontonians Transformers on BT, Marina is responsible for
weekly Your City features like Celebrity Chefs and Million Dollar Homes…
developing other serials for CityNews, including an exciting food related
feature. It stars a high profile, hunky Edmontonian and premieres this spring,”
explains Mennier.
“As part of the CityNews team,
Marina also contributes to the process of daily editorial development and
supervision. So far, no plans to do any additional or ‘full-show shows’…
producing five hours of original, live, local television every weekday is
pushing our current resources to the limit… However, who knows what the future
holds.”
As evidenced in her latest book,
Michaelides respects renegade women who shoot for the moon plus “shoot cougars
and their husbands in the process!” Renegade Women of Canada— The Wild,
Outrageous, Daring and Bold is her third book. Published by Edmonton’s Folklore
Publishing last year, the book profiles a number of Canadian women who have
pushed the envelope and continually do so. It is an educational, enlightening
and entertaining read about women who have helped to reshape our belief systems
and brought about numerous long-impacting societal changes. Her other books are
The Alberta Book of Trivia and The Alberta Book of History. She wrote them to
familiarize herself with the province she had chosen to call “home.”
While Michaelides struggles to
call herself a renegade woman, she truly admires such women who are “willing to
push the barriers… who basically aren’t scared… who aren’t run by fear.”
By Steffany Hanlen
“Are you a business owner... or did you buy
yourself a job?” This is the first question that popped into my head when I met
Lynn and Jen Carolei. Neither statement is necessarily right or wrong: such
questions simply challenge thought processes. Partnerships are often difficult.
Throw a mother/daughter dynamic into a business mix and you could have a recipe
for disaster. That is, unless they share a common vision, and have the
discipline to move past ingrained patterns of behaviour commonly associated with
family matters. Without a vision for their lives and business, they will move
from one conflict to another.
The nature of great partnerships is that one
person challenges the other to bring their best self to the game each day. In an
ideal world, partners support each other’s personal and professional growth so
that when it is applied in business, results become bigger and better than what
would be if done alone.
Lynn and Jen are brave women and,
unfortunately, also quite lost. Sublime Swim & Sunwear started out giving these
two powerful, yet very different, women a purpose, a goal and a reason to get up
in the morning. Now, what seemed to be ‘a good idea at the time’ is a hot little
business in St. Albert that has grown beyond their current personal and
professional capabilities. So instead of building and following a well laid out
business plan, they have been ‘reading and reacting’ as we say in sport from a
place of survival. In business, this is often referred to as ‘management by
fire.’
Without a clear, written vision for
Sublime—and an understanding of their own common values and tangible goals—the
business still may experience more growth. However, they will become
increasingly re-active. The ongoing growth and balance they seek is best
attained by being proactive.
VISION
Having a vision for Sublime Swim & Sunwear is
crucial. It is imperative that Lynn and Jen have a clear picture of where they
see the business in one, five, 10 or more years. It means answering several
compelling questions—questions more significant than “How many bikinis do we
want to sell next month?” or “Should we go to that buying show in Miami?” I am
talking about questions that are designed to get to the heart of the vision very
quickly.
A vision is created when the parties are able
to see clearly what the business represents. It’s also about asking yourselves
how you want your life to be, look and feel. Some of the questions I ask are:
How does your business support your life outside of it? What do you picture your
clients, suppliers, community and bankers thinking or saying when the name of
your business comes up?
A vision is about creating beyond the self and
beyond what you believe to be realistic. When you have a vision for your life,
it becomes the link to creating one for a business. Because Jen and Lynn are so
close, they will need two very different and powerful personal visions. So after
answering these questions and before they even begin to write their visions, I
suggest they first ask themselves and each other “Why we are doing this?”… and
“Why we are doing this together?” Next question” ‘What do we want to achieve
personally and professionally from this partnership?”
It
may sound easy, but honest answers will push the limits of mother/daughter
intimacy, because both women may have to delve deeply into things that, in a
business not run by relatives, are normally out of bounds.
VALUES
Personal values determine the who you are in
what you do. Business values give you the outline or the framework to make any
decision regarding the business. From banking to marketing, a decision either
supports the values of the business or it doesn’t—it’s either in line with your
personal values or it’s not. Simple.
Well, not so much. As family members, we
assume that we share common values, but that’s often not the case. Ultimately,
we create chaos and stress when we impose our own values onto the other person…
we each become defensive and reactive when we are not supported by the other
individual. Clear as mud, right?
Jen and Lynn have to explore what their
personal, current and truthful order of values are. It is essential that they
learn, appreciate and support their similarities and their differences. Only by
sharing these values openly with each other is it possible to learn to
communicate in each other’s values which is respectful and takes a high level of
understanding. It also creates the quickest way to agreement.
A values exercise is an important step in self
awareness. From this, Lynn and Jen can acknowledge the values they share—and
more importantly don’t share. (View Values exercises at www.steffanyhanlen.com)
The power of any business comes from clarity
in a common vision created by a clear understanding of personal and business
values. Sublime Swim & Sunwear can grow strategically based on the true values
of each partner, and how the business can support those values.
GOALS
Here is where it gets tricky. Goal setting, in
the traditional form, is about identifying measurable and/or tangible steps
toward achieving a result. After they have an understanding of a bigger picture,
I will ask Jen and Lynn to work these steps ‘backward’ from their Common Vision,
and base their goals on their personal values, not the other way around. Once
established, we can move into creating a vision for their lives and business
based on their current business and personal values. Their goals become a simple
to-do list—not a checklist of pass and fail.
By creating a common vision based on their
shared true values rather than working from a base of perceived and assumed
conversations between a mother and a daughter fighting for survival, Lynn and
Jen automatically create a much more powerful business.
From Values to Vision
Sublime Swim & Sunwear can be a business that
supports each partner and enlivens their lives outside of it. It can become a
vehicle that supports two women in achieving their individual dreams instead of
just a job. As they each come into alignment with their true selves, inside and
out, the scope of the business will very naturally become an extension of them,
and the lives they want to create.
Life is short. The mother-daughter
relationship is forever and needs to be honoured as the business relationship
grows. Not understanding the basic values and goals of the other person
and not creating a path as to how this growth can and will support them at work
and at home comes at a very high price.
My intention is to help them slow down… to
help them look inside themselves and stop the panic… and to belay, as Lynn says,
“the fear of eating cat food in retirement.” Lynn and Jen will soon see they are
in an amazing stage of growth, both as a team—and more importantly—as mother and
daughter.
This is going be a great story to share with
the grandkids one day. √
Steffany Hanlen is a personal performance
coach who conducts “The Champion Seminars.” Contact
shanlen@edmontonians.com
Lynn and Jen Carolei have chosen to dance with
the grizzly. They are following the intricate dance steps that go with owning
and operating a business as a mother and daughter. Both sense intuitively that
they have a chance to build the kind of relationships—business and personal—that
will give them the satisfaction and success they seek. This puts them at a
pivotal point in the business development cycle. Unlike many families that are
“dancing with the grizzly,” Lynn and Jen are prepared to take difficult steps
today to position themselves for success tomorrow.
So what steps can Lynn and Jenn take to
safeguard their business and personal relationships? Can they find strategies to
manage the inevitable conflict?
They have already taken a huge first step by
recognizing that they have problems. It takes courage to acknowledge there are
difficulties, and even more courage to reach out for help.
Lynn and Jen have also recognized that
transforming these problems into strengths is a journey that requires a guide.
It takes hard, sometime painful work, to rethink old assumptions, unlearn old
habits and replace them with new realities and actions. I will be the “guide”
who will work with them to keep them on track.
Parent-adult child partnerships can carry a
lot of old baggage. There is a lifetime of “stuff”—the large and small hurts
that come with family living—that can impact the business relationship. A
skilled conflict management specialist, experienced in family business, guides
the process and provides a safe and secure environment.
The biggest challenge facing Lynn and Jen is
to establish and maintain new and clear boundaries for their business and
personal relationships. Things can get messy when the mom and daughter stuff
spills over into the business side of their relationship … or when business
issues impact their personal relationship Their chances for a satisfying,
long-term personal and business relationships increase dramatically when they
learn to separate the two.
How do they accomplish this separation? The
process begins with a guided conver-sation between Lynn and Jen about the
current reality of their personal and business relationship. They will honestly
and respectfully address these key questions: What’s happening with regards to
your relationship at work and home? What’s not? What’s working? What’s not?
I will also be working with Jen and Lynn to
enhance their communication skills and to ensure that each really gets what the
other is saying. At this stage, it’s not about what’s right or wrong, it’s
simply about under-standing and respecting each partner’s perceptions,
perspectives and values.
The next step is for them to come to agreement
on how they want the relationship to work. They will explore important
questions: What would a successful business relationship look like? How would it
feel for each of you? How would a successful personal relationship look and
feel? This discussion will set outcomes for their personal and business
relationships. I will guide the discussion and capture those desired outcomes.
Once Jen and Lynn have agreed on their current
reality and desired outcomes, they can begin brainstorming alternative
strategies to achieve their outcomes. I will be capturing the alternatives for
this dynamic duo as they begin to chart a pathway to the future.
When the brainstorming is completed, Jen and
Lynn will discuss the positives and negatives of each alternative. They will
agree on specific strategies for achieving the desired results for their
business and personal relationships. These strategies will have timelines and
check points. Both will then contract in writing to work toward achieving those
future outcomes and “sign off” on the agreement.
What will be the result of their work? They
will have a plan for managing their professional and personal relationships,
complete with strategies, timelines and accountabilities. Best of all, they will
own this agreement—a product of their own hard work. √
Les Brost is head of Southern Star
Communications. Contact:
lbrost@edmontonians.com
We’ve all heard that one. Heck, even our moms
have extoled the virtues of deep breathing.
Here is the catch: 80 percent of the
population does not know how to take a simple deep breath. Like so many others,
if Jen and Lynn can master the process, they will receive the full benefits that
come from deep breathing.
So where do we go wrong? To start with,
breathing is something that most of us do not think about until we have a
breathing problem like colds, allergies, asthma, even fears or stress. Then
there are the misconceptions—the lungs are muscles… breathing through the mouth
is better for deep breathing.
Let’s look at how you breathe. Stand in front
of a mirror with one hand on your stomach. Take a deep breath and see what
happens. Are those shoulders moving up? If they are, you are an upper chest
breather. You probably find people asking you to repeat yourself because they
didn’t hear you. Deep breathing for relaxation purposes does not work and, as
the day goes on, you probably find stress growing. Trying to speak in this
stressed existence causes you to shallow breathe, feeling like you are drowning
in front of your audience.
Try that deep breath again, but focus your
attention on keeping those shoulders down and moving the hand on your stomach
out. It might not look flattering in today’s world of ripped abs and flat
stomachs but that expanded space is where your power comes from. By building
this power base in Lynn and Jen, we can correct some of the vocal issues that
are holding them back.
Jen has a young almost “little girl” voice
that does not serve her well. A potential client could easily assume she is
speaking with a high school intern and not the owner. Adding to this youthful
“hit” is the tone or pitch of her voice, which is just slightly high. Add the
stress of runaway business success and her voice can slip into stridency. Those
with strident voices are often perceived as overly aggressive. Jen is very
knowledgeable and experienced in her field but the voice is sending a
contradictory message.
Focusing Jen’s breathing along with some
resonance work will move her voice on to its natural pitch. From there, we can
build a powerfully centred voice that people will find easy to focus on and
trust, increasing her credibility. This will result in a shift in the customers
thinking from “She’s too young to have this much knowledge” to “How did someone
so young get so much knowledge?“
Lynn has a wonderfully mature voice that
should serve her well in business as well as life. However, her voice is not
being supported by that deep breath. This allows her voice to travel into her
nasal passages, increasing nasality. Nasality will often be heard by others as a
whiny quality. Once again, the customer’s mind becomes confused by those mixed
messages. While Lynn is talking about the quality of the product, her voice is
not supporting the claim. A customer wonders, “Am I getting the truth or is this
a scripted, sales pitch?”
Focusing her breathing, along with the same
resonance exercises as Jen, will draw Lynn’s voice out of the nasal resonators.
This will reduce the negative qualities, increasing her credibility and allowing
the full potential of her voice to be achieved. √
Tom Bradshaw is the head of the Academy of Voice & Speech.
Contact: tbradshaw@edmontonians.com
Success in today’s tornado-like business world
is dependent upon one main factor: the establishment and maintenance of long
term relationships. Relationships are challenging at the best of times but, for
Jen and Lynn Carolei of Sublime Swim and Sunwear, they are especially so. This
mother-daughter team is running a business that is barely able to keep up with
the consumer demands for their products.
Understanding their unique mind-body types
will assist each of them to effectively engage and connect with one another on a
personal and professional level.
Interestingly, Jen and Lynn have the identical
primary influence—Fire. As the saying goes: Like mother, like daughter. The only
significant difference, other than their stages of life, is that their secondary
mind-body-type influences—we all have them—are polar opposites.
Jen’s secondary influence is Wind and Lynn’s
is Earth. Wind types are doers, Fire types are natural leaders, and Earth types
are lovers of the world. So the daughter is a Fire-Wind type… a leader and a
doer. Mom is a Fire-Earth type… a leader and a lover. The impact of their
secondary influences is clearly evident when Jen rolls her eyes in response to
something her mother says.
FIRE
TYPE CHARACTERISTICS
Jen, who turns 26 this month, admits she is “a
self-help junkie.” She is challenged on a daily basis with keeping her “poop in
a group,” quite literally.
Lynn, who turns 51 this month, is experiencing
a major transition in her life. Having recently entered menopause has created a
whole new set of challenges. For the first time in her life, she made a
conscious choice to focus on health and well-being. As Lynn shifts her attention
to self-care, understanding her Fire-Earth mind-body type will assist her to
move gracefully through the many transitions in all areas of her life while also
raising Jen’s teenage sister.
Primary characteristics are a medium cadence
metabolism, medium build, and a sharp, orderly and decisive mind as well as a
forceful manner.
When Lynn and Jen are balanced, they will be
warm, intelligent and good leaders, displaying a love for life while enjoying
strong digestion, which Eastern philosophy considers the key to healthy tissues
and a strong immune system.
However, if they are out of balance, clear the
path. When the flame starts to rage, the mental and behavioral characteristics
are anger, aggressiveness… being compulsive, excessively critical or harsh,
hostile, intimidating, irritable, judgmental and a workaholic. Common physical
signs of too much fire are acne, indigestion, skin inflammations and ulcers.
SEASONAL
INFLUENCES AND BALANCE
Each one of the different mind-body types also
has a direct correlation to a particular season: Earth is spring, Wind is fall
and winter, and Fire is summer.
For Jen and Lynn, their primary season is
summer. The main precaution is to avoid over-heating… whether it is by spending
too much time in the sun without maintaining adequate levels of hydration, or
participating in movement or physical activity that is too intense. Both can
create too much fire internally.
This is the time for both of them to decrease
the level of intensity in all their activities to a moderate pace in order to
achieve and maintain balance.
During the fall and winter season—pertaining
to Jen’s secondary influence of Wind—the key for her will be to put more focus
and attention on flexibility. The influence of cold, windy and dry weather puts
additional stress on her internal organs and causes her muscles and connective
tissue to contract and shorten, increasing the amount of tightness in her entire
body. The most effective strategies will be to stretch for longer periods of
time during her movement or workout programs, and participate in various forms
of yoga: Bikram or Hot Yoga is done in a heated room; Vinyasa is a steady
flowing form; Ashtanga or Power Yoga is an intense athletic based type.
During the spring season—pertaining to Lynn’s
secondary influence of Earth—the key for her will be to increase the intensity
as much as her level of vital energy will allow. This is the time when the very
heavy wet and cool qualities of Earth can cause her to become lazy. Having the
assistance of a workout partner or working with a coach will be of particular
benefit in keeping her on track.
The main strategy for Jen and Lynn in
achieving and maintaining balance will be to decrease the raging fire—the pace
at which they are currently living—so the flame is burning at a
moderate-to-steady rate consistently. This can easily be achieved with the right
amount of movement and a nutrition program for their primary and secondary
mind-body type influences, with the appropriate seasonal adjustments.
Jen and Lynn will be performing their exercise
program which has a mix of cardiovascular and resistance/weight training
components, twice per week. The focus will be on stretching and strengthening
for healthy posture. Jen will be doing yoga four times a week with a mix of
either Bikram at a yoga studio or Yoga for Flexibility with Rodney Yee on DVD at
home. Lynn also will be doing yoga three times per week with Level 1-Yoga
Conditioning for Weight Loss with Suzanne Deason on DVD.
Understanding each other’s genetic uniqueness
will provide them with the ability to approach all aspects of their lives with
more mindfulness and a higher level of awareness. It will assist them in
achieving their goals while maintaining balance on the journey. √
Colin Williamsen is the president of The
Wellness Coaches Inc. Contact:
cwilliamsen@edmontonians.com
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